Engaged for Years, Betrayed in Months: A Heartbroken Fiancée's Dilemma 💔

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Imagine being in a long-term relationship with your childhood sweetheart, only to find out they've been cheating on you while away in the military. 💔 Now imagine that your decision to break up with them leads to them being cut out of their grandma's will. 😱 That's exactly what happened to this 22-year-old woman, who's now questioning whether she's in the wrong for not taking him back. Grab your popcorn, folks, because this story has it all: love, betrayal, family drama, and even a desperate attempt to buy a marriage! 🍿🎭

The Breakup 💔

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Childhood Sweethearts 👫

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College and Military 🎓🎖️

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Long Distance Love 💞

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The Cheating Scandal 😱

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Confrontation Time ⏰

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The Heartbreaking Truth 💔

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Calling it Off 💍

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Religious Beliefs 🙏

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The Betrayal 😢

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"Taking Care of His Needs" 🤬

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The Family Dinner 🍽️

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Spilling the Tea ☕

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Grandma's Ultimatum 👵

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The Will Drama 📜

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Cut Out of the Will 😲

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Standing My Ground ⛔

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Family Fortune 💰

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Desperate Measures 💸

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Friends' Opinions 🗣️

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Second Thoughts? 🤔

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Love, Betrayal, and a Family Fortune at Stake! 💔💰

Our heartbroken protagonist discovered her fiance had been cheating on her while he was stationed in a different state. 💔 Despite their religious upbringing and agreement to wait until marriage, he decided to find a girlfriend to 'take care of his needs.' 😡 After breaking up with him, she told his family the truth, leading to his grandma's ultimatum: get back together and marry her, or be cut out of the will. 📜 With a family fortune and successful business on the line, he even tried to pay her to marry him! 💸 But she's standing her ground, refusing to take him back. Now, her friends are saying she should forgive him and get married, just so he's back in the will. 🗣️ Is she really in the wrong, or is she just protecting her heart? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐

Compromising values for an untrustworthy partner? NTA, move on.

Healthy_Currency983 | Healthy_Currency983

Breaking someone's heart and trust is unforgivable 💔

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No obligation to take back unfaithful ex. Friends, stop pressuring. 👍

AwkwardImpression72 | AwkwardImpression72

Grandmother cut him out, not OP. NTA 🙌

blanketstatement5 | blanketstatement5

Stand your ground and move on. 💪

Mariposita48 | Mariposita48

Leave hometown, find better friends, kick a** - Reddit supports you! 👏

UpDoc69 | UpDoc69

Breaking golden rules - cheating and angering grandparents. NTA.

commonsenseisararity | commonsenseisararity

Supportive comment. Friends prioritize ex's welfare over betrayed friend. 👏

butterfly-garden | butterfly-garden

Betrayed by fiancé's breach of trust over religious beliefs 💔

mtngrl60 | mtngrl60

NTA. Trust broken, deserves consequences. Find someone who respects you 👍

Straysmom | Straysmom

Stay strong and move on, your health and happiness matter. 💪

woahwoah33 | woahwoah33

Trust your morals, not your friends. Cheaters rarely change. 👍

Adventurous-travel1 | Adventurous-travel1

Don't fall for it, he's only after his granny's money 💰

Acceptable-Pen7048 | Acceptable-Pen7048

Don't do him any favors. He needs to learn. 😠🚫

Anxious-Heart-7183 | Anxious-Heart-7183

FAFO and NTA - Move on and get new friends 👍

Broad-Discipline2360 | Broad-Discipline2360

Don't be a fool, once a cheater always a cheater 👍

Prestigious-Oven-261 | Prestigious-Oven-261

Leave the betrayer and unsupportive friends behind 👋

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Ex-fiancé is a tool, commenter relieved for NTA. 👏

WellyKiwi | WellyKiwi

Dump him and let him rot! 💔💰

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Delusional fiancé cheated while engaged, unforgivable. NTA 🚫❤️

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Don't let him cheat on you again - find someone better 👍

La_Murano | La_Murano

Supportive comment, advises getting new friends and moving on. ❤

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NTA: Don't take him back, hope cheating was worth it 👌

rebekahster | rebekahster

Marrying for money leads to a miserable marriage, grandma's overreacting.

BigComfyCouch4 | BigComfyCouch4

True friends should care about both parties in a breakup 👍

Temporary-Outcome704 | Temporary-Outcome704

Army relationships can be tough, he wouldn't have changed 👍

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Take care of you, NTA. 🙏

LessLikelyTo | LessLikelyTo

Breaking the stereotype: Women have needs and self-control too 🙏

Danivelle | Danivelle

Choose self-love over a loveless marriage 💜

HeartAccording5241 | HeartAccording5241

Cheater loses inheritance, justice served. 💯

BulkyMonster | BulkyMonster

Cutting kids out of will for dating is a manipulation tactic 🤔

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Don't compromise your values for someone who doesn't respect you. 💪

drtennis13 | drtennis13

Real friends prioritize YOUR future, not his. 👍

tattoovamp | tattoovamp

Good for you, OP. Drop the shitty friends and move on. 👍

flickercat | flickercat

Fiancé cheated, lost inheritance, friends defend him, NTA seeks justice 💔

bmyst70 | bmyst70

Don't sacrifice your future and happiness for his greediness 💔

Lunavixen15 | Lunavixen15

A harsh truth: returning to a cheater means accepting infidelity 💔

debicollman1010 | debicollman1010

Terrible friends with poor judgement. Can't marry a dishonest person. 🤷‍♀️

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Dump the trash friends and stay strong! 💪 NTA.

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Cheating fiancé gets what he deserves, stay strong 💪

Lukipela01 | Lukipela01

Broken engagement: NTA, he made a commitment to you 👏

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Stick to your moral code and get a prenup 😅

Lex_pert | Lex_pert

Heartbreak and betrayal, but she's not the a**hole. 💔 #NTA

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Heartbreakingly betrayed after planning for the future. NTA.

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Friends encouraging prostitution? Dump the cheating fiancé 💯

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No remorse from cheating ex-fiancé 👎

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Dump the cheater and the gold-diggers. You deserve better 💔💰

Wanderful-Woman | Wanderful-Woman

Put yourself first, he only sees you as a means. 👍

00Lisa00 | 00Lisa00

You deserve better, don't settle for a loveless marriage. NTA 👏

Traveling-Techie | Traveling-Techie

NTA for cutting cheater fiancé out of grandma's will 😂

BecGeoMom | BecGeoMom

Dump him and find someone who respects you 💪🏻

balancedinsanity | balancedinsanity

Cutting ties with a cheating friend: NTA, get new friends 💔

Overall-Scholar-4676 | Overall-Scholar-4676

Self-respect wins: Dumped cheating fiancé. NTA. 💯

idontunderstandbtch | idontunderstandbtch

NTA stands up to cheating partner's friends, says 'Fuck that'

SilentJoe1986 | SilentJoe1986

NTA. Savage but true. 🤷‍♀️

Idonotgiveacrap | Idonotgiveacrap

Ex-fiancé wants her back for money, not love. NTA.

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Breaking up NTA, but ratting out YTA ❌

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Grandma's Will and a broken engagement: A tough call 💔

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Don't let his mistakes ruin your life! Find new friends! 👍

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Ex's disloyalty led to financial consequences. NTA for moving on.

Anxious-Routine-5526 | Anxious-Routine-5526

Betrayed fiancée has every right to be angry. NTA 👏

No-Anteater1688 | No-Anteater1688

Dump those fake friends and move on to find real love ❤️

CODE_NAME_DUCKY | CODE_NAME_DUCKY

Don't settle for a cheater, find someone who shares values ❤

millerlite585 | millerlite585

You deserve better, don't reward his sh*tty behavior 👏

Dutchmuch5 | Dutchmuch5

Choosing self-respect over money - the right decision. NTA 👏

Successful_Moment_91 | Successful_Moment_91

Money can't buy love or happiness, don't marry for it 💔

Upbeat_Vanilla_7285 | Upbeat_Vanilla_7285

Harsh but honest advice, don't marry a cheater. 👍

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Don't take him back, you deserve better! 💔

RNGinx3 | RNGinx3

Don't marry a cheater, he'll do it again 💔

somechickfromflorida | somechickfromflorida

Cheating fiancé? Dump him and keep the loyal friend 👍

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Chastity before marriage edicts followed, grandma's Mahjong a priority 😊

Poppins101 | Poppins101

Money can disappear in a heartbeat 💰🤷🏻‍♀️

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