Husband REFUSES to Support Wife Through Cancer Scare Surgery! 💔

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Buckle up, folks! 😳 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. Imagine finding out you might have cancer (again!) and needing surgery ASAP... only for your husband to basically say "Sorry babe, gotta work!" 🙄 Talk about a punch to the gut. Our poor protagonist is left scrambling to find someone, anyone, to help her out during this scary time. 😢 Will her husband step up to the plate or strike out spectacularly? Let's dive in and find out! 🍿

😨 A Shocking Discovery

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💔 A Painful Past

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📅 Surgery Scheduled, but...

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🙅‍♀️ Friends Unable to Help

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 No Family Support

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🤔 Friends Question Husband's Priorities

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😡 Husband's Accusations

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🌺 A Surprising Apology

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🙌 Husband Steps Up

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🤗 Gratitude for Support

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😅 Husband's Realization

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😱 Husband Chooses Work Over Wife's Cancer Surgery!

Well, well, well... looks like our protagonist's husband finally pulled his head out of his a** and realized what a massive jerk he was being! 🙌 After leaving his wife high and dry before her potentially life-saving surgery, he comes crawling back with flowers and breakfast in hand. 🌺🍳 Better late than never, I suppose! The internet definitely had some choice words for this guy, but it seems like he's finally seen the error of his ways. 😅 Here's hoping this couple can get their communication skills in check and avoid any more medical melodrama in the future! 🤞 Now, let's see what the peanut gallery has to say about this wild ride of a story... 🍿👀

Partner refuses to support during cancer scare surgery. NTA.

BazTheBaptist | BazTheBaptist

Spouse should WANT to be there, not act like an inconvenience — NTA 👏

47-is-a-prime-number | 47-is-a-prime-number

Partner should step up in times of need. Counseling recommended. ❤️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Spouse refuses to support cancer-scare surgery. 💔

AnalApiairist | AnalApiairist

Lack of support from spouse during cancer scare surgery. 😔

Wickedlove7 | Wickedlove7

Supportive comment advises OP to ask husband to take time off

Otherwise-Elk-36 | Otherwise-Elk-36

Marriage without support is not worth it. 💔

Darkest-Desires6 | Darkest-Desires6

Husband's lack of support during wife's cancer scare surgery. NTA.

Skizzybee | Skizzybee

Possible cheating and red flags - couples counseling needed ASAP! 👍

tika12001 | tika12001

Consider financial impact before labeling him TA. 💰

Hufflepuffknitter80 | Hufflepuffknitter80

Supportive comment offers personal experience and advice for recovery.

[deleted] | [deleted]

User questions healthcare system after hospital sends patient home post-surgery 😡

MaxxB1ade | MaxxB1ade

Possible explanation for husband's behavior due to anxiety and addiction.

nursejacqueline | nursejacqueline

Partner refuses to support wife through cancer scare surgery. NTA.

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

Spouse fails to support cancer-scare surgery. NTA needs help.

Used-Atmosphere2422 | Used-Atmosphere2422

Spouse's lack of support during cancer scare surgery is unacceptable.

saboosa | saboosa

Despite circumstances, husband is still the AH according to commenters.

Little-Ad4370 | Little-Ad4370

Partner's lack of support during medical crisis deemed 'horrible' ❌

razzledazzle626 | razzledazzle626

Spouse should prioritize partner during cancer scare surgery. NTA. 😢

missangel21 | missangel21

Supportive comment urges wife to leave unsupportive husband. ♥

NotKatieKatester | NotKatieKatester

Compassionate commenter offers practical solution and support 🙏❤️

showeredinmud | showeredinmud

Lack of empathy from spouse during cancer scare is unacceptable 😡

No-Advance-773 | No-Advance-773

Roommate lacks empathy for cancer scare surgery, NTA receives support.

BerzerkerJr82 | BerzerkerJr82

NTA. Suggests alternative options for recovery and advices OP to prioritize self-care.

Harriethair | Harriethair

Ex offers help during pneumonia, but not the one for support

chicklette | chicklette

Supportive comment suggests husband doesn't prioritize wife's surgery, offers alternative.

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Kind stranger offers support to woman abandoned by husband during cancer scare ❤️

danelle-s | danelle-s

Married to someone who doesn't care about you? Consider options 😕

Cleantech2020 | Cleantech2020

Spouse prioritizing work over wife's cancer surgery? Definitely NTA ⛔

DesertSong-LaLa | DesertSong-LaLa

Spouse should support you in sickness and in health ❤️

BabyCowGT | BabyCowGT

Spouse refuses to support during cancer scare surgery. Heartless behavior. 💔

Crosshairqueen | Crosshairqueen

Partner prioritizing job over cancer scare surgery. NTA.

Neon_Rust | Neon_Rust

Friend shares cancer experience, advises OP to prioritize self-care. NTA.

lil-peanutbutter | lil-peanutbutter

Spouse refuses to support during surgery, commenter offers practical advice.

PhereinPhonon_6seeds | PhereinPhonon_6seeds

Get an in-home nurse, tell him to pay or dump him. NTA 👍

Ok-Many4262 | Ok-Many4262

Work should not come before supporting your spouse through cancer scare surgery.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Leave the unsupportive partner, find a better one! 👍

Exoticgardensalad | Exoticgardensalad

Partner's support during medical crisis is basic decency. NTA 😢

aFIREStudent | aFIREStudent

Spouse prioritizes work over wife's cancer scare surgery. Suspicious behaviour? NTA.

Odd-Cloud-6838 | Odd-Cloud-6838

Spouse refuses to support during medical emergency. NTA.

outdwoodwerk | outdwoodwerk

Being alone after surgery is scary, husband should be supportive. 😔

DellaMcG | DellaMcG

A devoted husband's support during wife's illness. ♥️

GuardStandard | GuardStandard

Supportive comment and advice to leave toxic husband. ❤

anOddPhish | anOddPhish

Curious commenter wishes well for surgery and asks for details.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment for cancer patient, wishing them well 🙏

Rural_Bedbug | Rural_Bedbug

Supportive comment recommends a lawyer for divorce. NTA.

ckb251 | ckb251

Choosing work over wife's surgery, NTA deserves better 😔

bethholler | bethholler

Spouse chooses work over wife's cancer surgery. NTA. ❤️

Littlemack18 | Littlemack18

Roommate with benefits prioritizes work over partner's cancer surgery! 😠

2DragonTats | 2DragonTats

Partner chooses job over supporting spouse through cancer scare surgery 💔

Lalalabambi | Lalalabambi

Stay strong and find support during tough times 👏

Accomplished_Area311 | Accomplished_Area311

Empathetic comment encourages OP to reevaluate toxic relationship. 👏

Due-Sherbert-7330 | Due-Sherbert-7330

Supportive comment suggests seeking help from family and resources ❤️

savvyliterate | savvyliterate

Wife deserves better 🙅‍♀️. If he can't support her now, when?

Icy-Middle-6737 | Icy-Middle-6737

Supportive comment with exclamation marks and heart emoji.

sibleyrc | sibleyrc

Supportive comment about spousal care during illness, with a sassy ending.

redheadnerdrage | redheadnerdrage

Partner values job over wife's surgery. NTA recommends marriage counseling.

MalsPrettyBonnet | MalsPrettyBonnet

NTA. Life with kids might be worse. Counseling recommended. 👨‍👩‍👤

mca2021 | mca2021

Husband's lack of support for wife's cancer scare surgery. 💔

theoriginalNO | theoriginalNO

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize their health and leave manipulative partner. 🚩

Able-Day4178 | Able-Day4178

Heartless partner refuses to support wife through cancer scare surgery.

themistycrystal | themistycrystal

Spouse refuses cancer support, commenters call out unacceptable behavior 💔

Gracie1994 | Gracie1994

Supportive comment calling out bad attitudes and suggesting divorce.

daloman | daloman

Actions speak louder than words in supporting a loved one 👍


Partner's duty of care outweighs work, gaslighting is unacceptable. 😡

MrsManics | MrsManics

Your health first 👍 - don't let a**hole husband stop you!

suspicious-pepper-31 | suspicious-pepper-31

Husband forgets vows during wife's cancer scare surgery. 🤕💔

AffectionateOwl5824 | AffectionateOwl5824

Husband refuses to support wife through cancer scare surgery. NTA. ☹️

kelliemac208 | kelliemac208

Useful tip on hospital transportation services in the U.S.! 🙌

naptime_connoisseur | naptime_connoisseur

Supporting loved ones through tough times is crucial 👍

whog0esbear | whog0esbear

Could husband's job be behind his lack of support? 🤔

Firefox_Alpha2 | Firefox_Alpha2

Husband's lack of support for wife during cancer scare surgery.

carollpg | carollpg

Husband prioritizes work over wife's surgery? NTA's thoughts. 😕

KingPiscesFish | KingPiscesFish

Spouse's lack of support through cancer surgery is unacceptable ✅

pxrsefone | pxrsefone

Partner gaslighting and refusing to support during cancer? Seek help. 🚧

Maybeidontknow99 | Maybeidontknow99

Self-worth reminder: You deserve someone who'll be there for you 👏

Emotional-Guest-3991 | Emotional-Guest-3991

Partner's lack of support during cancer scare is a red flag 💔

AreJay0711 | AreJay0711

Prioritizing work over loved ones can lead to regret later 😢

Ginger_skittlebits | Ginger_skittlebits

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