🌟 Buckle up, folks! We've got a family drama that's sure to tug at your heartstrings and make you question everything you thought you knew about parenting priorities! 😱 Meet our protagonist, a 27-year-old woman caught in the middle of a sibling rivalry that's been brewing for years. 🌋 With an autistic brother who's been the center of attention since his diagnosis, our heroine and her sister have felt like second thoughts for far too long. 💔 But now, with twins of her own, she's facing a new dilemma: can she trust her parents to give her little ones the attention they deserve? 🤔 Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, accusations, and tough decisions! 🎢
Parents NEGLECTED Her for Autistic Brother, Now She Won't Let Them Babysit HER Kids! 😠
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🌟 Meet the Family: A Tale of Priorities and Resentment 😔
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🚨 Everything Changed: Parents' Priorities Shift Dramatically 😢
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😡 Resentment Grows: From Brother to Parents 💔
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🎓 College Escape: Leaving Home and Feeling Second Best 🏃♀️💨
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🏠 Who Misses Feeling Like a Second Thought? Not Us! 🙅♀️
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🚗 Summer Adventures: Sister Bonding and New Love 💕
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👨👩👧 Trio of Besties: Sister, Husband, and Me 👭👬
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💍👶 Marriage and Twins: Life's Big Changes 🍼
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✈️ Vacations Adjusted: Making Room for the Little Ones 👨👩👧👦
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👵👴 In-Laws to the Rescue: Amazing Grandparents Step In 🙌
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🤔 Parents' Realization: Wanting Time with the Twins ⏰
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🙏 The Awkward Request: Parents Want Their Turn 😬
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😓 Honesty is the Best Policy: Explaining My Fears 💭
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🧩 Attention Dilemma: Balancing the Twins and My Brother 🤹♀️
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😠 Accusations Fly: Hating My Brother and Punishing My Parents 🗣️
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👨👩👧 United Front: Sister and Husband Agree 🤝
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🚨 Family Feud: Parents Demand Bonding Time, But Can They Balance Attention? 😬
Well, well, well... looks like our protagonist is in quite the pickle! 🥒 Her parents are demanding some quality time with their granddaughters, but she's not so sure they can handle the responsibility. 😰 After years of feeling like second thoughts, she's hesitant to leave her precious twins in their care for a whopping three weeks! 📅 Her fears? That her autistic brother will steal the spotlight, leaving the little ones feeling neglected. 😢 Accusations are flying, with her parents claiming she hates her brother and is punishing them for their past parenting choices. 😡 But our heroine is standing her ground, with her sister and husband backing her up. 💪 The internet has spoken, and the verdict is in... 🗳️ Let's see what the masses have to say about this family feud! 🍿
Putting her children first, despite parental objections. NTA 👏
hurling-day | hurling-day
Supportive comment acknowledges OP's valid reasons for not letting parents babysit.
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Choosing to not let neglectful parents babysit. NTA.
tentickles_ | tentickles_
NTA. Respect her decision, but her parents failed both siblings.
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Polite and logical response to neglectful parenting. NTA 😊
PolitePineapple | PolitePineapple
Don't let guilt-tripping stop you from protecting your children. 😎
cMeeber | cMeeber
Understanding NTA's perspective on neglect and offering a solution 👍
throw_away_800 | throw_away_800
Feeling neglected by parents, now won't let them babysit. #NTA
BelleViking | BelleViking
NTA. The parents failed to make a case for themselves 🤔
ProgmusicHans | ProgmusicHans
Survivor of neglect as sibling with autism praises OP's decision 👏
FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter
Respectful parent sets boundaries, receives support and validation 👏
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Parenting a special needs child is a family responsibility 🙏
LadyKatkin | LadyKatkin
Despite past neglect, parents may not neglect grandkids. NAH.
DSQ | DSQ
Having twins in the house would disrupt the routine for brother. NTA 😊
messysagittarius | messysagittarius
Putting her daughters first, not letting past affect future. 👏
lowerurstandards-bbg | lowerurstandards-bbg
Prioritizing autistic brother over sister, NTA for not trusting parents
iiiBansheeiii | iiiBansheeiii
Sister understands neglect, won't let it happen to niece/nephew 👏
Morrigan-71 | Morrigan-71
A neglected child now prioritizes her children over her parents' feelings. 😠
snugglypants | snugglypants
NTA, understandable that she doesn't want them to babysit 😕
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Standing up for her kids after being neglected as a sibling 👏
unwantedsyllables | unwantedsyllables
Sibling neglected by parents for autistic brother won't let them babysit.
SandrineSmiles | SandrineSmiles
Sibling bond triumphs over negligent parenting. NTA 👏
Feeling-better2day | Feeling-better2day
NTA strikes hard with a hint of satisfaction. 😎
SavageAsperagus | SavageAsperagus
Choosing to protect her own children doesn't make her selfish. 👏
DarkVikingMermaid | DarkVikingMermaid
Neglected sibling refuses to let parents babysit. NTA. 😠
kacapica | kacapica
Choosing not to let neglectful parents babysit. NTA. 🙌
SomethingClever70 | SomethingClever70
Prioritizing children's needs and valid concerns over guilt-tripping tactics. 🙌
a_g_n_e_s | a_g_n_e_s
Protecting her kids from neglectful grandparents. NTA 👏
RNBQ4103 | RNBQ4103
Grandparents babysitting for three weeks: too long or reasonable request?
atthebarricades | atthebarricades
A heartfelt story of sibling love and understanding ❤️
0nemorelight | 0nemorelight
Prioritizing kids' safety over hurt feelings. NTA wins.
jairatraci | jairatraci
Book recommendation for OP to deal with childhood trauma.
zuklei | zuklei
Curious about brother's autism severity and ability to function.
meowpitbullmeow | meowpitbullmeow
Protecting her children comes first. NTA for not trusting parents.
raerae6672 | raerae6672
Sibling neglected for autistic brother, now won't let parents babysit! 😠
Dana07620 | Dana07620
Trust is earned, not given. NTA for protecting your kids 😊
znhamz | znhamz
Compassionate comment acknowledges difficult family situation.
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Sisterly bond prevails despite parents' unfair treatment. NTA 😊
restingbitchface8 | restingbitchface8
Parent of autistic child calls out neglectful parents. NTA 💯
SpookySugarSkull | SpookySugarSkull
Valid concerns about parents' ability to care for grandkids 😔
CompetitiveLecture5 | CompetitiveLecture5
Neglected by parents, now protecting her own children. #NTA 👏
OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Setting boundaries with family when caring for disabled siblings. 🙏
FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams
A concerned comment urges parent to prioritize children's safety.
PhantomStrangeSolitu | PhantomStrangeSolitu
Stand your ground, NTA. Your kids, your choice 👏
Fantasydreamer2450 | Fantasydreamer2450
Understanding comment suggests communication with parents for mutual decision. 👍
1986bethe | 1986bethe
NTA stands up for herself and values in-laws' help 💪
NomadicusRex | NomadicusRex
Putting her children first, OP is NTA for not allowing neglectful parents to babysit 👏
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Curious about brother's future care, NTA OP faces similar situation.
Mr-Plutonium | Mr-Plutonium
Protecting her kids from neglectful parents, NTA with sound advice 👏
janefryer | janefryer
Setting boundaries with family is important for mental health. 🙌
eugenesnewdream | eugenesnewdream
Broken bond: Neglected daughter refuses to let parents babysit. NTA 😠
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Sibling speaks up about parental neglect and lack of trust.
brazentory | brazentory
Parents neglected her for autistic brother, won't let them babysit. NTA 👏
toxikola | toxikola
Neglected daughter won't let parents babysit her kids. NTA. 😠
bellayesil | bellayesil
Polite NTA explains valid concern for parents' past neglect, stands ground.
fecoped | fecoped
Validating NTA's concern about neglect, offering advice and empathy. 😊
makeshiftmarty | makeshiftmarty
Curious commenter questions OP's sudden demand for 'granny privileges' 🤔
BraidedSilver | BraidedSilver
Putting her kids first: Woman stands up to neglectful parents 👏
DinosaurBabyDoll | DinosaurBabyDoll
Putting her kids' safety first, NTA refuses MIL/FIL babysitting. 😍
Here_for_tea_ | Here_for_tea_
Putting kids' safety first, OP stands up to neglectful parents. #NTA 💪
Otherwise-Story-9074 | Otherwise-Story-9074
NTA. In-laws great with kids. Parents need to step up.
Home-Slice-1628 | Home-Slice-1628
NTA, setting boundaries with entitled grandparents. You go mama! 👏
SparklyDruid | SparklyDruid
Parents neglected daughter for autistic brother, NTA for not trusting them 👏
iamthenightrn | iamthenightrn
Parenting solidarity! NTA, spirited kids are not for everyone. 👏
Slammogram | Slammogram
Parents neglect twins for autistic brother, NTA won't let babysit 😠
ryo3000 | ryo3000
Putting her kids first, not letting parents off the hook 👏
DonHozy | DonHozy
Resentment towards brother & parents apparent, NTA but 🤔
slavicslothe | slavicslothe
Trust your instincts, NTA. Prioritize your children's safety 👍
babydan08 | babydan08
Understanding the nuances of autism is crucial in this situation.
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Caring sister protects autistic brother and her own children. NTA 👏
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Sibling with autistic brother won't let neglectful parents babysit. NTA 👏
generic_simmer_111 | generic_simmer_111
Prioritizing kids over neglectful family. NTA 👏
karmagrl31276 | karmagrl31276
Mother prioritizes her own children after parents' neglect. NTA 👌
TashiaNicole1 | TashiaNicole1
Childhood neglect due to sibling's condition, leading to resentment. NTA.
melodytanner26 | melodytanner26
Sister and husband are your rock, don't let them guilt trip you! 😊
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User sympathizes with OP's decision not to let neglectful parents babysit. 😊
redwynter | redwynter
Neglected daughter stands up to parents' negligence, won't babysit. 😠
poppit88 | poppit88
Parent shares experience with autistic son, supports original poster's decision.
OneHandedMolly | OneHandedMolly
Valid concerns about neglectful parents and disconnect from family 😔
lizzyborden666 | lizzyborden666
Validating OP's feelings and advocating for proper disability support. 👏
painsomnia | painsomnia
Parents neglected daughter for autistic brother, she won't risk it. 😠
Purple_Midnight_Yak | Purple_Midnight_Yak
Empathetic NTA recognizes parents' skewed treatment of autistic brother.
avast2006 | avast2006
Childhood experience makes NTA wary of mom babysitting her kids 😔
Mireillka | Mireillka
NTA. Important advice for handling autistic sibling's care in future. 🛠
BunnySlayer64 | BunnySlayer64
NTA and fellow sibling-to-someone-with-autism empathizing with OP's decision. 😊
clarabellum | clarabellum
Parent of typical and autistic kids supports OP's decision. NTA 👏
rkl1313 | rkl1313
Childhood neglect leads to distrust. NTA for not risking it.
tired-soul- | tired-soul-
Being cautious with family members as childcare providers. 😞
frimrussiawithlove85 | frimrussiawithlove85
